The idea of there being only one way to be queer, and that there is a hierarchy, where some people are better queers than others seems to… Read more “You are queer enough”
Category: LGBTQ
Thoughts on Sex Works! The 6th Pink Therapy Conference
This March I attended, and presented at the annual Pink Therapy Conference, an international event, with attendees from as far away as Australia. Usually if I either… Read more “Thoughts on Sex Works! The 6th Pink Therapy Conference”
Why Trans Visibility Matters
The naming of names is very powerful, to claim an identity not only gives you language, but a sense that you are not alone
Working with others, and living by my values
I am a member of the BACP, the largest regulatory body for Counselling and Psychotherapy in the UK. Whilst I have at times raised issues with their… Read more “Working with others, and living by my values”
Distress about gender identity/sexual orientation
There is a narrative that the only issues someone has when “coming out” are with their fears of the reactions of others. It is true we have… Read more “Distress about gender identity/sexual orientation”
Am I normal?
It is probably one of the most common questions in the counselling room “Am I normal” or it’s close variation “Is what I do normal?” Perhaps it… Read more “Am I normal?”
LGBT History Project North East: Making History
Yesterday I had the great pleasure of attending, and speaking at, the LGBT History Project North East conference. It was a whirlwind of a day, where academics… Read more “LGBT History Project North East: Making History”
Should clients Google their therapist?
I have written previously on the ethical, and professional reasons why therapists should not google their clients. It’s a feature of the power of modern technology that… Read more “Should clients Google their therapist?”
Domestic Abuse
Domestic abuse takes many forms including; physical, emotional, psychological, sexual and financial, and these can often be combined. Sometimes it takes the form of coercive control, which… Read more “Domestic Abuse”
